I’d ask the same question as Adaobi Tricia Nwaubani (Nigerian Novelist & Writer), Using poorer relatives as domestic workers, does that translate to helping or exploiting them? It’s an article everyone has to read
Letter from Africa: Nigeria’s homehelp dilemmas
Recently, I have learnt that everyone processes life’s situations differently. Just because some of us have it easy does not mean everyone functions the same way. Sometimes, it’s good practice to sit back and ponder on what your reaction will be if you were to be in someone’s shoes. It makes life more peaceful at least mine has been peaceful lately.